Monday, May 25, 2015
Let's call this "the gasp heard 'round the world" :)
Yes, when you say to a teenager.....or adult, for that matter.......Disney just banned selfie sticks....the reaction is quite amusing!
So, no! DO NOT panic. I repeat! Do not panic!
You may still bring your selfie stick into the parks! You may still have them in your Walt Disney World resort! And yes, you may selfie until your little heart is content!
Welllllll, the last part isn't completely true!
The Selfie Stick is banned from rides / attractions! And, it's for the safety of all guests. Not just you, but the guest in front of you, or behind you on the ride.
Imagine with me for a minute....you go up with the Selfie Stick, in the dark on Space Mountain, with a low-lying track just ahead, and BAM! The stick flies from your hand, and hits the guest behind you!
I know, I know, you have it secured with that little safety strap on your wrist, right?
Ok...things happen. Accidents happen!
And for the safety of all guests, they are banned from the attractions.
You may still take selfies in the parks, during the parades and in all common areas.
But, where it is not safe, you will be asked to refrain.
And....in an effort to help, the Memory Maker photographs are now available on many of the attractions, so maybe you won't miss that perfect photo opp after all :)
For more up-to-date info, follow Main Street Memories on facebook!
Thursday, May 21, 2015
Thursday, May 14, 2015
But I don't talk about it much, because quite honestly, I don't like to be a Debbie Downer.
I don't talk about it, because I don't know what "it" is.
I don't share because I don't want it to interfere with work "I didn't want to email you because you said you weren't feeling good."
Please. Email me. Make me talk abut magic :)
What I do know, is that I haven't eaten a solid meal in 22 months.
I know that I can't process food.
<insert thankful for coffee and protein shakes here>
And I know the pain that has now become what some might call "chronic".
So, after months and months of tests, doctors, medical bills that I have nothing to show for them, and of course the consistent "we can't figure it out"....they've decide Exploratory surgery is the best option.
Both my doctor and my surgeon don't have huge expectations. And there's a great chance that this will not yield results either.
However. It must be done.
Meanwhile, yesterday, one of my best friends gets the answer they weren't looking for.
Kayla has a brain tumor.
She will also have surgery at 10am.
I don't want to minimize my surgery, however I am more concerned about her. And their family.
I pray that God will comfort them.
I pray for and believe for a miracle.
But I do also have great fear for myself. And the unknown results of an unknown surgery.
Will I wake up to nothing?
Will I wake up to a miracle in Kayla's life?
Will I wake to an unexpected complete abdominal surgery?
Will I wake up?
I don't always share my whole heart, but today I ask for prayers on my own behalf, but I am asking that you would go to the throne of Grace on my behalf, for Kayla.
And her family.
While I'm sleeping, and my doctors are working, I pray for Kayla's doctors. That their hands be steady, and their minds be clear. I pray they are Christians. And they take the leading of the Holy Spirit as they operate.
What a day.
I pray it's a day of unexplained miracles.
Surgery is scary....but the Lord!!!
Sunday, May 10, 2015
I am 20-year believer that a relationship with Jesus isn't a feeling.
It isn't the hype of a spectacle of lights and the wonder of fireworks.
After all, that's what Disneyland is for, right?! :)
So, 12 weeks ago, we (#Charming and I) enrolled in the Spring semester of Small Groups at Church of the Highlands.
We joined a LIFE group.
I knew we wanted to do LIFE. Because many friends, and fellow COTH members said that we needed to.
So, we did.
We joined a group of unknowns.
Imagine us, on the COTH Small Groups website, almost like a Jesus version of Russian Roulette, if there is such a thing.
Eeenie, Meenie, Miney Moe!
Yes, that's how we chose.
Very spiritual, I know.
So, I email this chic, Natalie...and I say "hey...so...we don't know a soul, but we totally would love to join your group" and she replies "wow! That's great, y'all come on!"
So... we did!
How fabulous of her!
So, for 12 weeks, we've been engaged in this LIFE class, learning the fundamentals of the Tree of Life.
Stuff we've heard for years, but never applied it in this way!
I'm not saying it's a new version of the Bible, or anything crazy, I'm just saying, it's broken down in a way that made me literally say "hold up...read that again.....that right there will preach!"
Anyways, so it all comes to a grand finale this weekend, at the much anticipated LIFE Retreat.
Again, I can't put it into words.
Que the pageantry, lights, fireworks, spectacle... a program of excellence.
An event that ushered me straight to the heart of worship, and to the place that I could be so strong *in* the Lord, but yet so weak in His presence.
But what I can say, is that I feel like my insides were scooped out with a watermelon scooper....and the good stuff was so sweet, and so wonderful, and the stuff that still needed to be pruned a little, was brought to light, examined, and then tossed away! To be remembered no more!
God is using ALL of me, for His good.
My good, my great, my sweet, and my trash.
Yes, even the trash...He is taking, and making a wonderful story of grace and redemption.
I almost feel bad for the BJCC.
I left a bunch of garbage there.
I left some relationships there.
Unhealthy relationships....left on the hard concrete floor of the BJCC. #SorryNotSorry
I left my anger there.
I left the mean words of some "friends" there.
I left my bitterness there.
I am so very thankful for a few friends that texted me throughout the weekend, to let me know they were praying for me.
They knew it would be hard.
They knew it would hurt my guts.
But they also knew that Jesus needed to rid me of that, so He could shine!
And, yes...at the end of the weekend....I was exhausted.
Mentally, physically, and emotionally.
I brought all of me to the weekend, and I left with all of Him.
I am so thankful for these 12 weeks, and my friends in LIFE.
I can never express enough, how wonderful it is, to walk into a home of strangers....and never once feel judgement, or condemnation.
But a room full of compassion, and kindness, and silliness, and love.
I tried to think of another power word....like spectacular, or marvelous, or wonderful, or even stupendious...but none of those worked.
My God is amazing.
And I am so thankful to be working towards a life of Living In Freedom Everyday!
Sunday, April 26, 2015
Today, we were thrilled to join in the celebration of Benny Bowman, and 35 years of ministry.
But really, I would confidently say we all celebrated 35 years of life-giving impact.
Benny and Connie Bowman are my spiritual parents.
As they are for so many.
But for me....
I can say without hesitation that much of my love for Jesus is because I saw it modeled so purely in them.
Scott was serving on the Student Ministry team, and they were on a youth retreat in Fort Payne.
Little did I know, they prayed for him that weekend. They prayed that God would send him the help-meet that his heart desires.
I had no idea that was me.
I really had no idea that I was "desired" as a partner in ministry.
What in the world?!
I had not been home from college long. And I can only imagine that just a few weeks later, when I showed up on the scene, something inside them must've laughed "God....are you serious?!"
But they unknowingly accepted the challenge of mentoring me.
I was worldly. Oh was I worldly.
Connie and Benny both loved me with a love that was greater than love.
Only that love that God can give.
They prayed for us when we got engaged.
They loved us and ministered to us when we lost Elijah.
I wasn't reachable during those days.
My heart was shattered beyond repair.
And they called us into their office --the couch was old and worn but it was so safe--but I can remember that it swallowed me whole just to sit in the safe-place that was their office.
They told us "this will tear you apart, or this will be the strength of your marriage. You are both grieving. And you grieve differently. But you have to do it together."
I'll never forget them for that.
I trusted them. I knew they sought Jesus with their whole heart.
And at a time where I couldn't even see thru my blurry tear-filled eyes to search for Jesus, I trusted them. I knew they were right. And I believed that they were only looking out for the "best us" possible.
Just months later, we would ask them to do
The unthinkable, and sing at Kendall's funeral.
They accepted with an honored smile.
I know, later, after looking back, how hard that was for them. They had loved Kendall from the beginning.
And they brought the sweet spirit of the Lord into the church that day.
And I worshiped with them.
Again, I trusted them. I trusted their strength.
I knew if they said we could get thru this, then we would.
I was so thrilled to know that my boys would have that same leadership in their lives.
But God had other plans.
When Benny told us that God was calling him to another location, I sobbed.
Only because I knew what my guys would be missing.
But. I knew that this too would be ok.
I trusted them.
And of course, Chapman is still in those critical years, but Mason has had some amazing youth leaders and experiences.
And then, all of a sudden, Benny was the team Chaplain for his football team. Funny how God gives us our heart's desires.
I watched as Benny ministered to those boys. He taught them the Word of God. And they trusted Him. They knew he was real. They knew it was not about football to him, but football was the avenue that God was giving him to reach them.
I loved watching from this perspective. As I loved those boys too.
Today, was a great day, celebrating Benny Bowman, but what it really was for me, was a reminder of the impact that we have on people.
Again, as I strive to not waste my days and opportunities that He's given me...I'm thankful for such an excellent role model.
And I'm thankful that they took me in (they really didn't have a choice) and they parented me, as I learned of the Lord. And they showed me how to find Him, trust Him, and fall in Love with Him.
Saturday, April 25, 2015
I'm a firm believer in this verse. And when God rocks my world with His plan, I ask Him to show me one day...so that my simple little mind can say "oooooh, I get it now. Sorry again! that I tried to go my way" ;)
And He does. He always does.
Friday, April 17, 2015
I had a moment at Christmas when I realized that while I love buying gifts for others, and finding something that will make their heart smile, I just don't "need" one.single.thing.
God has blessed me so much. And while I truly don't deserve it, I'm so glad He has.
So as my Big 4.0 drew closer, I decided to make it bigger than me.
I can't change the world, but I can be a little ray of sunshine in someone's day if I choose.
So, 40 days before my 40th, I began those little acts of sunshine.
My kids helped on a few of these and we enjoyed seeking out small ways to bless people.
I had a moment during the Christmas season when I realized that God has blessed me so much, and while I love giving gifts, and buying for others, and thinking of them. And buying something to make their heart smile...I just don't "need" one.single.thing.
God has blessed me so much. And I truly don't deserve it, but I'm so glad He has :)
So as my Big 40 grew closer, I wanted to make it bigger than me.
I can't change the world. But I can be a little ray of sunshine, if I choose.
So, 40 days before my birthday, I began little fun things to make each day brighter for someone else. Be it directly, or indirectly.
I loved it. My kids were in on a few of these. What a blessing.
I'm so thankful to be 40!
40-We have a new neighbor. So I took a fun little gift for her and her son.
39-We brought Nana a piece of homemade pound cake. Because we knew she would love it.
38-I went to Pell City Coffee Company. And before I left, I pre-paid for the next person's coffee.
37-I left a fun treat on the porch for our Mail Carrier. She's always so great.
36-I delivered a few homemade crafts to a few teachers. A gift for them. Not their students.
35-I stopped at a gas station near my house, and put quarters in the newspaper stands. Not a big deal. But I bet the sweet little man appreciated it when he came bright and early to get his paper.
34-A small donation to St Jude for a little boy raising money. So sweet! I hope he met his goal!
33-went on a date with #Charming and we left our young waitress a better than expected tip.
32-Spotted a set of parents --of twins-at target. We left a $20 in the door. "parenting is hard. You're doing a great job!"
31-stopped in for 2 seconds and left a cupcake for a friend :)
30-I had a stash photo paper, so I donated it to a local elementary School teacher.
29-Spent the day helping a friend pack for an upcoming move
28-Gave a fun sign to a friend for their "man cave". We really don't need it, but it's a perfect fit for them.
27-Took a large bag of items to the thrift store
26-Sent Kara Tippett's book to a friend for her bday. Little did I know her dad would pass away just before she received it. #blessing
25-Mailed a random card to a long-distance friend
24-Donated some of my clothes to a local women's clothing closet.
23-I found $5 in my jeans pocket. So I taped it to the pump. It's jut much, but every little bit helps.
22-I left a fun tip for our hairstylist, and one of her workers gads it to her AFTER we left!
21-While we were in Walt Disney World, we left change in the pressed penny machines, so the next little pirate or princess can have their choice!
20-Took dinner to Nana while she's caring for Pop in the hospital. She's been wanting to try Chicken salad Chick. So I picked it up for her!
19-Another large donation of items to the thrift store
18-Delivered "dinner in a jar" for a sweet friend about to have a new baby girl!
17- Asked my boys to cut the grass of a Single-Mom neighbor. They did it while she was at work.
16-Called to check on a friend. Real life talk. Not text. Not social media.
15 As a family, we volunteered at the Open Hands Overflowing Hearts 5k.
14 A dear friend called, needing a friend. So I put all distractions away and we counseled.
13 Helped friend get her house ready for a party
12--Listed eBay items for friends to make some quick cash.
11-Put $1 in the Coke machine at the hospital for the next person.
10-as we were passing by the veteran's home, we noticed an elderly man crossing the street. We called the home, and they got him back safely.
9-called 911 for a man on the side of the road. I didn't feel comfortable stopping but I did call for help.
8-mailed a fun prize to a friend graduating from college soon!
7-let my mom borrow my silhouette. And she's been making fun gifts for friends like crazy.
6 prayed for, and encouraged a friend while their child was in the hospital.
5- invited a friend to church with us. And they came. So glad.
4- cleaned out some scrapbook items and gave them to a friend.
3-helped an older lady get her groceries from her cart, to the conveyor belt. I didn't want to offend her, but when I offered, she gladly accepted assistance.
2--paid the tab for the car behind me at Chick-fil-A
1-sent my mom flowers, thanking her for my 40 years :)
I hesitated about posting, for fear it would be viewed as a brag.
But God knows my heart.
It was a challenge to get outside of myself. Daily. And deliberately think of others.
But I'm so glad I did.
40 is off to a great start. I pray I can make much of Jesus in the next 40!